Reflections on Friendships, Finances, and the Future
A few days ago, I met up with some university friends for a steamboat dinner at HDL. It was a rare gathering, as life had taken us in different directions since the Covid-19 pandemic—many of us got married, had children, or found new social circles. Before the pandemic, we met regularly, from seeing each other daily in school to monthly catch-ups after graduation. However, as responsibilities grew, our meetups became less frequent, making this dinner a special occasion. During our gathering, we naturally caught up on each other's lives. To my surprise, some of my peers were facing difficulties despite holding NTU degrees. A few lost their jobs during the pandemic and struggled to recover, while others turned to gig work due to limited opportunities. Listening to their stories, I realized how fortunate I had been. Instead of commenting much, I simply listened, acknowledging the unpredictable nature of life. On my way home, I reflected on my own journey. My first job paid well, but a...