Why Money Never Feels Enough: The Influence of Social Media

Workplace Uncertainty and Financial Concerns

Recently, I was having lunch with my colleagues when the conversation turned to the recent headcount cut at our workplace. The company has decided not to backfill positions when employees resign, which means those who stay will have to take on additional work without extra compensation.

When a group of us asked the department head about the situation, we were told that while there is a plan to reduce headcount, we are not at the stage of retrenchment yet. However, the company is implementing a hiring freeze unless absolutely necessary. This news has sparked anxiety among employees, but their reactions differ based on their age and experience level.

Different Perspectives: Older vs. Younger Employees

The older employees (above 40 years old) started expressing concerns about potential retrenchment, fearing financial instability. On the other hand, the younger employees (fresh graduates) were frustrated about the increasing workload without a corresponding pay raise.

To give some context, our company operates at an extremely slow pace—it’s like a scene from Dragon Ball Z, where replacing a single lightbulb could take an entire episode. Despite the slow pace, the impact of staff resignations is becoming noticeable, as the remaining employees now have to cover the work of those who left.

Turnover among younger employees is high normally, with most staying for only 2-3 years just to gain experience for their resumes. Meanwhile, older colleagues seem more content with the slow-paced environment and take breaks whenever possible.

The Trap of Lifestyle Inflation

Curious about why older colleagues were unwilling to leave despite the increasing workload, I asked a few of them about their financial situation. Their responses were eye-opening: they admitted they couldn’t afford to resign because their expenses had grown alongside their salaries. Over the years, they had upgraded their lifestyles but had little savings or investments to fall back on.

This highlights a common financial trap—lifestyle inflation. As people earn more, they tend to spend more, often influenced by societal pressures and social media. Constant exposure to luxury lifestyles, travel, and material possessions online creates a subconscious need to keep up, leading to excessive spending and minimal savings.

The Role of Social Media in Financial Dissatisfaction

Social media plays a significant role in why money never feels enough. Platforms like Instagram and TikTok showcase influencers living lavish lifestyles, making people feel inadequate about their own financial situation. Seeing peers post about luxury vacations, designer goods, and fine dining creates an illusion that everyone else is doing better financially.

This leads to:

  • Increased Spending: People feel pressured to match the lifestyles they see online, even if it means living paycheck to paycheck.

  • Financial Insecurity: Instead of prioritizing savings and investments, many focus on short-term gratification, making it difficult to leave a job even if they are unhappy.

  • Work Stress and Dissatisfaction: Employees feel trapped in their jobs because they need to sustain their upgraded lifestyles, leading to workplace frustration and burnout.

Breaking the Cycle

To avoid falling into the trap of never having “enough” money, consider the following:

  • Prioritize Savings and Investments: Aim to save a portion of your income before increasing discretionary spending.

  • Differentiate Needs vs. Wants: Before making purchases influenced by social media, ask yourself if they are truly necessary.

  • Set Financial Goals: Focus on long-term stability rather than short-term gratification.

  • Limit Social Media Influence: Be mindful of how social media affects your financial decisions and self-worth.

Ultimately, financial contentment comes from smart money management, not from constantly chasing what others portray online. Understanding this can help us make better financial choices and reduce unnecessary stress about money.


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